Your loved one is getting older, and he’s not the same as he was last year. You’re concerned for his safety and well being. As much as you want to take on the care responsibilities he needs now in life, it’s just not feasible. You know that assisted living care is what he needs, but how do you get other family members including your older loved ones to agree?
Let Them Know About Assisted Living Care
Most people do not know what assisted living care truly means. They may have thoughts about it, but those thoughts are not accurate. If they truly understood it they may be more open to the idea.
Explain to your family members that assisted living is a service, which provides individualized assistance to people. This means that people only receive the help they need.
When an assessment determines the need, then the “care service” will start. As the person grows older and needs additional support, the service will expand to include it.
Assisted living care is the most basic form of assistance for older individuals. People still live independently, but they have someone who is available to tend to their needs so they can continue to live safely. And as needed will have access to good health care.
Tackling the Money Issue
Besides not knowing what it is, most people disregard the service because of the expense. It does cost money to have someone care for an older individual, but this money is used in a way that saves others a lot of time, energy, and well-being.
Care giving is a challenging work. And it’s work that doesn’t pay when you’re doing it for a loved one. The work can be physically, mentally, and emotionally exhaustive. And with time, this can be highly detrimental to a person’s physical and emotion well being, which could end up costing more money than the cost of assisted living care. The stress of caring for an older loved one can lead to illnesses that need to be treated by a doctor, so then you are incurring extra medical bills. If the illnesses are bad enough, the caretaker must take time off work. Sometimes, caretakers try to cope with the stress of caring for someone by eating more, drinking more alcohol, or smoking more cigarettes, which then increases spending while negatively effecting a person’s health.
The money spent on assisted living is well worth it in the short term and long term. Family members who do not understand often do not know the perils of care giving and should take time to help to understand or read our blog to know what it truly takes to care for someone.
Explaining all of this to your family members as well as older loved ones can help put the expense in perspective.
Reach Out for Additional Help for Assisted Living Care
Eldercare Connections can help you with the process of getting your family comfortable with the idea of assisted living and the care you need. We can provide additional information that will make sense to your family, and possibly open their eyes and minds to the great need for these services. Please reach out to us now by calling 513-685-8998 or contact us.